Hi, i’m matthew.

I am a qualified and experienced pluralistic therapist. Over the years I have come to realise that each therapeutic relationship becomes its own unique, co-created version of therapy, with its own theory, philosophy, language, ways of being, and sense of humour. To me, this is exactly what pluralism is all about. I see therapy as a collaborative journey, with our relationship at the heart of what makes it effective.

I’m particularly drawn to the often uncomfortable questions that existential psychotherapy dares us to ask: How am I really doing in my life? What have I said ‘yes’ to, and where do I need to say ‘no’? How do I show up with others? Where do I feel connected, and where do I feel alone? What truly matters to me, and how do I live in a way that honours that? What do I owe myself, and what do I owe those around me?

In my work, I help individuals and intimate partners navigate these questions, supporting them to explore their values, make choices that feel authentic, and build connections that matter. My aim is always to create a safe, collaborative space that encourages curiosity, reflection, and honesty.

A significant part of my practice includes working with gay men exploring questions around identity, sexuality and relationships.